| Abstract | U radu je analizirana uloga roditelja u odgoju djece. Ta je uloga tradicionalno smatrana najvažnijom za uspješan razvoj djeteta, no s vremenom je došlo do pojave različitih čimbenika koji utječu na odgoj. U suvremenom i širem smislu na odgoj djeteta utječu i mediji, ustanove za rani i predškolski odgoj, škole, druge institucije i sl. Njihov utjecaj ne treba zanemariti, no kroz rad je utvrđeno kako niti jedan drugi čimbenik ne može u potpunosti zamijeniti ulogu roditelja u odgoju djeteta. Koristeći adekvatan roditeljski stil, autoritativni stil koji je karakteriziran visokom emocionalnom povezanošću i toplinom uz istovremeno postavljanje jasnih pravila i granica, dijete može izgraditi poželjan sustav vrijednosti i uspješno proći različite etape razvoja. Utvrđeno je i kako je napravljen pomak od stereotipnih uloga majke i oca u odgoju djeteta, iako valja naglasiti kako takvi pogledi u određenim društvima i obiteljskim zajednicama i dalje postoje. Bez obzira na biološku uvjetovanost majke i oca, razlike u odgojnim procesima, odgovornostima i zadaćama s vremenom su postale sve manje. Danas se oba roditelja u odgoju smatraju ravnopravnim i podjednako važnim te ne postoji zadaća koju jedan od roditelja ne bi mogao ili trebao obavljati. Ipak, majka i otac na različite načine mogu uspostaviti odnose s djetetom, što je u konačnici, pod pretpostavkom uspješne komunikacije i primjene adekvatnog roditeljskog stila, za dijete i dobro. U odnosu na prijašnja vremena, danas je posebno važno i ostvarivanje duboke emocionalne povezanosti s djetetom, što je također jednako važno i za majku i za oca. Načini ostvarivanja te povezanosti mogu biti različiti, no u konačnici rezultiraju sličnim ili istim prednostima za dijete. Bez obzira na sve promjene u znanstvenim spoznajama i poimanju uloge roditelja te odgoja kao procesa, uloga roditelja u odgoju djeteta i dalje je nenadomjestiva te najvažnija. |
| Abstract (english) | The paper analyzes the role of parents in raising children. This role has traditionally been considered the most important for the successful development of a child, but over time, various factors have emerged that influence upbringing. In the modern and broader sense, the media, institutions for early and preschool education, schools, other institutions, etc., influence the child's upbringing. Their influence should not be ignored, but the paper established that no other factor can completely replace the role of parents in raising a child. Using an adequate parenting style, an authoritative style that is characterized by high emotional connection and warmth while simultaneously setting clear rules and boundaries, the child can build a desirable value system and successfully pass through various stages of development. It was also determined a shift from the stereotypical roles of mother and father in raising a child was made, although it should be emphasized that such views still exist in certain societies and family communities. Regardless of the biological conditioning of the mother and father, the differences in educational processes, responsibilities and tasks have become less and less over time. Today, both parents are considered equal and equally important in upbringing, and there is no task that one of the parents cannot or should not perform. Nevertheless, the mother and father can establish relationships with the child in different ways, which is ultimately, under the assumption of successful communication and the application of an adequate parenting style, for the good of the child. Compared to previous times, today it is especially important to achieve a deep emotional connection with the child, which is also equally important for both mother and father. The ways of achieving this connection can be different, but ultimately, they result in similar or the same advantages for the child. Regardless of all the changes in scientific knowledge and understanding of the role of parents and upbringing as a process, the role of parents in raising a child is still irreplaceable and the most important. |
